Leaders Are Focused On These 5 Top Priorities

Over the last quarter, we’ve researched (via email surveys, phone call interviews as well as in-person workshops in San Francisco, New York, Singapore and Los Angeles) the topic of “Prioritization” by asking people what their top priorities are for 2015.

Top 5 Priorities of Leaders Worldwide

Nearly 400 people from countries around the world have shared their 2015 priorities with us.

Next, I’m going to share the TOP FIVE responses we received.

After that, I’m going to share a special invitation with you…

Global Leaders Are Focused On These 5 Priorities

  1. Uninterrupted Time With Friends & Family
  2. Time for Wellness, Play & Other Interests
  3. Creating New Business
  4. More Quality Time to Think
  5. Improved Leadership Skills

So, I’ll ask:

Not to stress you out, but have you thought about…

…what will happen if you DON’T get some help with some of those priorities?

Is the order different? Are your topics different?

The Invitation

The list of the TOP 5 Priorities totally amazed us because Jodi and I designed Get Momentum to help leaders like you improve ONE key leadership skill every month. You’ll build this skill faster than you would if you tried to do it on your own.

That’s why we call it momentum…

If you are ready to be a more visible, more influential, and a more productive leader for your product, your service, or your cause, the Get Momentum coaching program is for you. Now is the time.

Your Get Momentum membership is NOT like a gym membership or other online programs.

It’s not something that you sign up for and never use!

We’ve got your back. And you will get the MOST from your time and money. Jodi and I personally call, email and text you to check in every month.

We can do this because it’s an intimate group; we know every one of the 102 members by name!

And, we’re ready for the next 102 of you to join.

Here’s my suggestion:

Check out the membership levels and see which one is right for you.

It’s that easy.

I truly wish you all the best.

Your Coach,

How Easy Can You Make It?

Looking out toward the end of this week, what is it you know you’d like to have done, contributed to, facilitated … Let me put it this way: “What will you want to have done that could/would make a difference out there?”

If you could focus in on one of your Most Important Things between now and the end of the year, what would it be? What is the result you’d want? How can you set yourself up to win?

Chapter 9 from Your Best Just Got Better

What Are You Doing To Make Things Easier…and Better?

Sitting across the conference table on the 10th floor of a New York City office (there on Park Avenue) last Thursday morning from 8:45-9am, I listened as the CEO of a multi-billion dollar firm shared some of the “workplace performance” opportunities he sees needing attention. We’d coordinated a 15-minute meeting, and as he shared the issues of “Productive Leadership” that he’d been thinking about, I found myself reflecting on specific instances of previous coaching projects with my clients, as well as some of the things I’ve written about in (and since) Your Best Just Got Better.

Specifically, there are three (3) recommendations I have for people who (1) are busy, (2) planning to get busier, and (3) want to maintain a focus on their overall ability to lead and engage in their “Whole Life” experience to the best of their ability.

If you’re going to Be Better, you’ll have to start doing these three things better…and more:

  1. Slower…and Steadier: All three of these recommendations DO tie together, but this one deserves it’s own call-out of attention. So, ask yourself this question, “What’s easy to do?” To rush. To skip over something that’s a “minor detail.” To think you’ll have a little more time later. There’s something magical about pausing, slowing down and breathing in to and through the project, problem, opportunity, or challenge your facing. I know of a few better ways to do this kind of reflecting; but, the one I’ll encourage you to do right now is: Open your notebook to a blank piece of paper. Write down the date 14 days from now, and choose very deliberately a SPECIFIC project you want to have made significant progress on between now and then. Set a timer for 15 minutes, and do your own version of “thinking, planning, organizing.” Do this kind of pre-planning once a morning for each of the following 13 mornings (weekends included) and notice how far and fast you get going.
  1. Effective…and Then Efficient: Closely tied to that last one, but on to another level, is the suggestion I make to do things that are effective and THEN look for ways to get things done more efficiently. Doing a task (or series of tasks) that is effective means that it’s important to the overall mission of the organization/product/project you’re working on. Doing it effectively means that you’re actually accomplishing progressive movement toward that purpose. Before you find a way to do something easier, faster, more efficiently, make sure that what you’re working on at that level deserves the kind of attention you’re paying it. When it’s time to actually get it done…that is the time to bring in a coach, an advisor, someone experienced in the HOW of your why. When you’re clear on the why, a good coach should be able to give you a series of suggestions that will positively impact your productivity AND save you 30-60 minutes of time each day. (At least that’s my goal!)
  2. Think…and Think Deeper: You wanna know the one thing I hear leaders say that worries me more than just about anything else they COULD say? It’s this comment, “Jason, I don’t even have time to think during the day.” I don’t know of a more dangerous way of going about working. If there isn’t time to THINK embedded in to your day, what will you be working on 21 days from today, 180 days from today, one year from today? As your coach, I have a very quantitative study doing on in my mind when I get to meet with you. I simply ask you this question: “About how much time, about how many times, a day do you want to be thinking?” The minimum I can suggest for a Managing Director, Partner, or C-level leader is 3X15 minutes a day. Minimum. Your job: Identify what “thinking” would look like to you, and schedule your next 3 sessions this week.

If you were going to bring yourself to the point of thinking about doing what you do a little bit better, which of those three suggestions is most for you right now? Leave a comment in the section below and let us know. If there’s a specific “tactic” you’d like some assistance with, let us know and we’ll get you an idea right away!

To Serve is to Live

My mentor - Frances Hesselbein - has a mantra. She says, “To Serve is to Live.”

At our NYC #CoffeeChat last week, we all go to practice living that mantra.

Here’s my request: For those of you in the picture, leave us a paragraph or so of what YOU walked away having talked about (and, perhaps even still thinking about) since our coffee and brunch together in New York.

Create a work-life “style” (stop going after balance)

What’s your goal?

What are you willing to give up in order to move in that direction?

Look, you being #better is binary. It’s an either/or.

  • Either you’re going to be better tomorrow, or you’re not.
  • Either you’re going to do the work, or not.
  • Either you’re going to start right now, or not.

Sure, you can justify putting something off until later, but I’ll ask you at that point: If you practice putting things off until later, guess what you’ll get really good at? 

Yup…putting things off until later.

Is that what you want to be known for? Is that the legacy you’re going after? Yes, I’ll admit there are all kinds of things that get in my way of starting. I could give you a list of the “facts” that get in the way; and, my list - no doubt - pales in comparison what some of you reading this could write down. How about things to stop me like:

  • I don’t have enough time.
  • I don’t have enough money.
  • I don’t know the right people. 
  • I don’t live in the right city.
  • I need more help.
  • …that list goes on.

One of the BIGGEST things that gets in my way.

The constant stream of input from my “socially networked” world. Social media, phone calls, text messages, and - oh, here comes the big one - email. Do you want to know THE most important thing I can do to “get a handle on it all”? (We did create an entire Theme (including a Module, Town Hall and Success profile) titled: “Productivity Through Technology” at www.getmomentum.com/themes/technology …)

Here it is: Get my #Inbox #Under #Control (which often means #Zero). 

Now, just because my inbox is at ZERO does NOT mean my work is done. No, IN FACT, the “emptier” my email inbox, the MORE work I have. And, that’s the point. You see, when my inbox is full, when my voicemail box is full, when my Evernote “to process” notebook is full, when my mind is full - even when my stomach is full! - I don’t know what to do next. Empty means I can prioritize. Until there’s room, I don’t know what to do next. When that “bucket” is empty, that’s when it’s time to go to work.

Oh, boy, do I have work to do. But, I don’t have “looked-at-and-not-decided-about stuff.”

“A goal is not always meant to be reached, it often serves simply as something to aim at.”
- Bruce Lee 

You see, working this way isn’t about any magic/special formula. It’s certainly not about the App. It is by no mans because I am “lucky” or am “any better” at this than any of you. Now, the only significant difference that I know of is that I have a habit of getting there.

habit: a settled or regular tendency or practice, esp. one that is hard to give up

Now you know why, this month, we’re studying HABIT BUILDING at Get Momentum. I’ll coach you to take ANY goal - what I call an MIT (Most Important Thing) - and create a work-and-life-style that guarantees you achieve on that more often. Look, tomorrow you’re going to be ahead of the game…or playing catch-up. You’re going to have time for serendipity…or, you’re going to start and end the day, hoping you can ignore the “shoulding” voices in your head, only to come back from that thing you did “to prove you’re your own self” and feel crappy because you have not been managing your priorities.

(Did that make as much sense to you, as it did to me?)

Listen, if I’m wrong, stop reading and go on to look at another post on your feed-wall. But, if there is a part of you #stuck, wondering when in the hell anything is going to change, let me put it to you this way:

You. Are. In. Charge.

You’re in charge to put yourself in a place - with access to the information, surrounded by people who will support your growth toward #better - to focus on what you WANT.

Stop accepting just what is just ok. We’re going beyond just what you’ll accept; you’re moving to a new place…way beyond what has allways been.

If it’s time to achieve more goals, visit the contact page at Get Momentum and email me. I’ll send you chapter one of http://ow.ly/1ObTZk (Your Best Just Got Better, over at Amazon .com) and we will schedule a time to talk about how YOU are going to get #better.

Ready to create a better work-life style???

ALERT: More time is lost during the Holidays than any other time of the year

I believe that we actually get MORE free time during the Holidays than any other time of the year.

(Especially if you travel!)

YOU may not think this is true because you are not (yet) ready to take advantage of all the “extra” time that I am confident is going to come your way. Think of it as the “hurry up and wait” season…

Have you ever experienced something like this:

“You’re on your way to a meeting or an event - or maybe a family holiday gathering! Suddenly, something happens that surprises you, and you find yourself waiting. Maybe the people you’re meeting with are running late, your flight is delayed, or the commute is extremely long…”

What do you do with that “extra” time?

These windows of time are wasted if you’re not prepared.

The reason I prepare so intensely is that I want to get as much of the little stuff done and out of the way during these nonessential times. Then when I do arrive, I have time to relax and enjoy the time with my friends and family!

A Little Goes a Long Way

Take 1% of your day (= 15 minutes) right now and prepare for what you can do when you’re surprised with some of this “extra” time. (I’ve shared SOME of the items from my list this year below…)

Ok, so besides those thank you cards that I wrote about a while back, here are the rest of the “Top 10” things I know I can do in about 15 minutes.

Feel free to use this list while you make your own!

9. Unpack, purge and repack my travel bag or wallet
8. Start a “Jason’s Update” letter to send to one of my mentors
7. Review and organize the articles and content folders in my “cloud” storage
6. Do a “mind dump;” write down a list of +50 things that have my attention
5. Update the apps/icons on my SmartPhone, make sure what I need is  there
4. Clean up the desktop of my laptop computer (file, delete, share)
3. Listen to podcasts or audiobooks that I’ve downloaded to my SmartPhone
2. Review my calendar for the next 3 weeks looking for appointments/reservations to make
1. Call my mom (my dad, my sister, or a good friend)

More time is lost during the Holidays than any other time of year

It’s not hard to see why the Holidays are a perfect time to set yourself up for success by having at least one small task that you could do to push your mission forward.

Don’t think too hard about this — your 15 minute activities might be listening to a podcast, researching gifts on your mobile phone, or simply slowing down and enjoying the moment (yes, you can consider this meditation as a task).

What is ONE 15-minute activity that you are going to focus on this Holiday season? Please type it in the comment section below. I’m curious to see what you’re hoping to accomplish. (Also, I look forward to all of us reading this post and getting ideas from one another.)

I wish you the BEST for a happy and stress-less Holiday season.

Want to succeed? Do these three things (more)

Have you ever found yourself reflecting on a conversation long (even years) after you had it? I have. In fact, here’s one that I’m about to celebrate a new anniversary of: In 2011, a mentor of mine said:

“You’ve got to find a problem you can fall in love with. A problem that draws you in, teases you, and brings out the best in you.”

If you want write that in a notebook. Memorize it. Say it to yourself in the morning as you drive/commute to work. Since Rao asked me that question years ago, I’ve been thinking, dreaming, wondering, and building with that prompt in mind. It was something he said over a #CoffeeChat in #Ventura, CA and I’ve used it to create workshops, write speeches, write books, and advise clients worldwide. When it’s time to create something and bring it to the planet, you (no doubt in my mind) want to experience success.

Have you discovered YOUR question yet??? I have…”How do I continue to get better, do less, and experience more in this short time I have on the planet?”

My grandpa passed away recently. For all 42.5 years I’ve been on the planet, I’ve known him as a man of integrity, someone who could guide me to change my mind by simply “looking my way,” and a grandpa who gave me my name (we both have Wayne as our middle name…). I learned a LOT from my grandpa. A LOT. As I prepare for the new year, and look forward to getting “teased” by the problem I’ve fallen in love with, I’m putting together a series of discussions - in person AND on line - to share ideas of problem solving and engagement with the communities I’m a part of.

Will I see at an upcoming #CoffeeChat (click here) or during an online Town Hall at Get Momentum (and, click HERE). Over the next few months, here are the topics we’ll explore. They are what I call the “not so secret steps to success.”

1. Show Up

Recently, a Get Momentum member (and graduate of our past two Leadership Retreat programs in Ojai, CA) invited me to discuss the Get Momentum tenets of “FutureCasting” in to the new year with a small group of her most trusted clients AND advisors. Ranjani Mohana is an extremely successful small business owner in the Silicon Valley, and over the past few years, I’ve worked as her coach as she continues to “Show Up.” She builds her network by looking for ways to be of service. Think about that…

So, here’s the tactic I can recommend: Open your calendar - right now - and block out a MINIMUM of 12 days over the next 12 months. You can do 2-3 days a time, or 1 day a month, whatever you think might work for you. Your goal, find somewhere you can “show up,” at a meeting, a conference, an event, where your question can be “tested.” (You know, the problem you’ve fallen in love with.)

I’ve got 9 of my 12 mapped out for 2015. Wanna talk about them? Want to meet me there? Let me know!

2. Do Good Work

“Good”…It’s such a darned relative word. What does “good work” mean to you? Is it work you enjoy doing? Is it work you get paid (well) to do? Is it work that you give away? Is it ALL of that? Or, is it something totally different? I know, I know, that was a long list of questions. But, it’s important that you know - from the get go - what “good work” means to you.

At the end of the day, for the next 5 days or so, do yourself a favor: Write down the times during that day where and when you were WAY engaged. When did time seem to disappear? Where did you notice that your energy was rockin’ at a night level? Where did you feel like you were doing “who” you are, not just what you do? Keep track of this over a week so you can do some kind of Weekly Review at the end. In there will be a lot (and I mean a LOT) of information.

Ok, so I’ve been writing in a daily journal at the end of each day since 1997. I answer the same three prompts at the end of the day, and I’d love to share that with you. Members of Get Momentum will tell you that these discussions around “searching for the good work” are always worth the time. Welcome!

3. Stay In Touch

Accountability. To the project. To the people. To the process. When you are there, time-and-time again, for the work that needs to be done, for the people you work with, and for all of the activities that need to happen in order to achieve success, you will find more and more opportunities coming your way. The people around you - what I call your “Social Network” - are the ones that are going to look forward to your call. They are the ones who will turn to you for assistance. And, they are the ones who will refer you to others, when the time is right.

Today, right now in fact, go through your “Sent Items” in email. Look back over the last 30 days, and identify the people you’ve emailed who are “new” to your network. Then, as you think about who they are, what they work on, what keeps them busy, ask yourself this question, “Is there anything I can do to be of service?”

I’ve said it before, and I know I’ll say it again: “The best time to build your network is when you have something to give.”

What did I miss?

As YOU think about the secrets to success, what would you add to that list of four? Jump on over to www.getmomentum.com and let me know. If you submit one that I can test over the next 30 days - AND IT WORKS - I’ll contact you and set you with a month-long membership to our Get Momentum Leadership Skills coaching program. C’mon, in, we’d love to see you!

Do you think about “THE” future, or “YOUR” future?

When you think about your future…

Good morning, we’re getting some much-needed rain here in Ojai this week. One thing I know: This rain is what we need for those flowers to grow and the lakes can fill. (You see, I like to hike and race triathlon in the Spring!)
As you think about the year ahead, please (PLEASE!) do yourself a favor and visit the MODULE of this month’s Momentum Theme: http://www.FutureCast.Life

Personally, I like to separate thinking about THE future from thinking about MY future. I think they’re different sides of a same coin. This month, we’ll walk you - step by step - through our FAVORITE tools and processes to close one year, and open another. (Hope to see you on our Town Hall webinar this month!)

And, if you have 5 minutes to spare today, please DO add your comment to the prompt at LinkedIn (Members click here…)

We’re asking GM Members around the world to share THEIR best practices. Let’s all learn from one another!

Have a Powerful Conversation This Holiday Season

Today I am going to talk to you about the powerful conversations that you need to have this Holiday season with someone who has impacted you — these conversations have the ability to change your life and the way you work. I had one with a college professor WAY BACK in 1991…thank goodness, that discussion changed my life. For more than 20 years I’ve looked to mentors to guide me as I take on bigger goals and achieve more - personally and professionally.

‘Tis the Season

This is important. You are important. Talking about your goals is important. NOW is the time to make things happen. And, when you have the chance to sit and talk with your mentors, make the most of it. Here’s how I’ll do it this holiday season

  • Write down (at least) 20 significant accomplishments from the past year.
  • Identify themes to those achievements (who was involved, where was I, etc?)
  • Consider what I could have done to experience even MORE success.
  • Identify one (or a maximum of two) question I’d like to ask my mentors.

The key to productive conversations is to clearly define what you want to get from having that conversation. I observe people as they spend so much time talking about how bad things are, often describing in great detail all the things they don’t want to happen. When this occurs, they miss the rare opportunity to focus on ideal scenarios.

Where will you be this holiday season? I’ll be home in Ojai, California and I’ll visit my family in Northern California. I’ve already made a few calls to invite some influential people (I call them mentors) out for some good meals and great conversations. I’ve even started compiling Agendas for each person; this way I remember the stories I want to share and the questions I’d like to ask them.

Agendas aren’t just for boardroom meetings anymore!

Before you finish your day today, schedule time with the important people in your life. (With a little notice, they will make time for you; I just know it.) With all the busyness of the holidays, it’s easy to put this off. Open up your calendar, pick a few days, and send invitations to the people you’d like to sit down with; the people you call mentors.

What DO You Want?

When you have time to talk with an experienced advisor, talk about what you DO want! I often start my mentor conversations by sharing with them my responses to the prompts above, and then I tell them the question I’m wrestling with. Time and time again, this works. I walk away inspired and informed, always with a plan of what to do next.

Remember, time is precious. Be selective with your invitations. You and the people you’re inviting are busy.

Stop spending your precious time (energy and effort) on what you hope doesn’t happen! FOCUS, CLARIFY and CREATE the outcomes you WANT to achieve. Are you ready for a question that just might change everything?

Right now, ask yourself, “What do I want to be true by December 31?”

Stop. Right now. Take out a pen and open your notebook to a new page. Write down at least 10 things you’d like true by the end of this month.

 

The Weekly Decompress, level 2

Every Get Momentum member around the world (our online, confidential executive coaching leadership development program) participates in the Weekly Decompress program. In addition, our friends and colleagues around the world are invited - as not-yet-members - to participate in the Weekly Decompress Lite self-coaching program. These are the same questions you ask yourself that I prompt each GM member to answer…

What Do You Need To Think About (More)?

Want to sign up for a few weeks? Just visit The Weekly Decompress page. (http://www.WeeklyDecompress.com)

NOW, for those of you ALREADY doing the Weekly Decompress, and you know it’s time to “change up the questions,” here are a few you could blend in over the next 5 weeks. (Remember to read Chapter 10 of www.YourBestJustGotBetter.com to review the power of the 5-week experiment…)

Here are 4 new questions:

  1. Who’s on My Team?

  2. What Surprise Am I Ready For?

  3. What Goal Could I “Advertise?”

  4. What Am I Missing?